We had a great time at the Ladies in Waiting Tea Party! The decorations were beautiful and Sis. Burton did an amazing job teaching about etiquette, manners, grace, etc. We all learned a lot!! Even Stephanie and I learned we weren't "sitting down" properly LOL
For those of you who didn't get to make it that night, here are a few tips:
- Dress the part: You don't have to wear a suit or dress but a lady always wears clean, coordinated clothing - free of wrinkles. All clothes should fit properly - not too baggy, not too tight. One is not usually considered classy if she exposes an intimate body parts. A lady will dress for her body type and not try to get ahead using her physical attributes.
- Cleanliness is key: Shower on a regular basis. Blow-dry and style hair before leaving your house. Apply a subtle amount of perfume. Your beauty should look effortless. Smile!
- Choose your words wisely: What you say and how you say it are two very important factors in exuding class. Always speak at a soft to moderate tone--you shouldn't need to raise your voice. If you're dealing with a person who won't listen unless you speak forcefully, then they aren't worth dealing with. If you have nothing good to say then don't say anything at all - take that to heart!
- Actions speak louder than words: Now that you look the part, you should act it too. For example, pull your skirt under your legs when sitting down. Always sit with legs crossed at the ankles or with your legs together, one foot slightly in front of the other.
- Sharpen your mind: Keep yourself informed of world events, politics, selected movies, plays, and music. Being cultured expands one's knowledge and interests, while opening doors to stimulating conversations with new people that can develop into meaningful business or romantic relationships.
- Practice martyr-free modesty: In everything she does, a lady will acknowledge those who helped her before she takes any credit for herself. A lady will not flaunt herself, her valuables, or her accomplishments. A good reputation can surpass all of those things. Do not correct others unless they ask your advice. Do not act like you are better than anyone else. A lady is not self-absorbed. But be careful not to seem overly modest--do not be weak and allow people to take advantage of you. You are too intelligent and classy for that.
- Never lose your cool: Don't let people get under your skin, no matter how much they try. Keep your composure. Express your surprise or disappointment at someone's behavior in a gentle way to show that their actions have affected you and to show that you have feelings, or else people might think you're cold.
We had a great time and laughed at all the mistakes we were making after Sis. Burton's lesson. Hopefully, we can do another tea next year and all of you can attend :)
XOXO,
Amberly
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